Caring and mental health support for Nick
Nick* has worked in the banking sector for most of his career. He suffers with multiple health issues including depression and high levels of stress, particularly since taking on the responsibility of caring for his elderly mother, Louise, who has a variety of health conditions.
He frequently makes the long trip to go and see her and constantly phones her to ensure she’s eating and taking her medication. Nick had previously contacted his local authority about a care support package for his mother but was informed that it can take months for one to be put in place. With Louise’s care needs becoming more complex, Nick reduced the hours he worked at the bank to be her carer.
The change was detrimental to his monthly income, which dropped significantly and left him unable to afford various expenses including his gym membership. But far from being just a small luxury, being able to go to the gym was a real support for Nick. After losing a family member and navigating the COVID lockdown by himself, Nick had struggled with his mental health. But when he joined the gym and attended regular exercise classes, he found that it significantly helped him in this respect. And now with the additional pressures of caring for his mother weighing on him, working on his mental health was more important than ever.
After reaching out to the Bank Workers Charity to see how they could help, they suggested a grant to go towards Nick’s gym membership. In the face of the stress of caring for his mother and adjusting to a significant loss in income, it was hoped that this would allow Nick to look after his mental health.
The Bank Workers Charity were able to award Nick a grant of £300 to fund his gym membership for six months. They also did a benefit check to see if he was eligible for carers allowance and offered him counselling support. He ultimately declined this offer and said that for him, being able to go to the gym was more beneficial. He was assured he could go back to the Bank Workers Charity at any time and he said he would be back in touch should he need mental health support further down the line.
Caring for someone else can be incredibly difficult. But Nick’s story is an example of how the Bank Workers Charity can help you and your wellbeing.
*Names have been changed to protect the client’s identity